Jayanthi Bunyan
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Living  In  India

I'm currently living in Kolkata, West Bengal, India.  I'm not a really a blogger, but I do send occasional updates to my family in the States.  This is where I'll share my occasional emails home and add pictures about my adventures.

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Delhi Trip & Adjusting to Kolkata

9/18/2013

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Hello everyone!  Hope you're having a good Wednesday.  (I think it's officially Wednesday everywhere you are now!)  Aakash and I are officially somewhat settled and trying to get into the normal routine of things.  

Last week, we went to Delhi for Aakash's father's funeral.  (This is a very long, detailed story.  I won't be offended if you skip a few paragraphs if you're in a rush!)  It was a really whirlwind of a trip.  We arrived in Delhi Monday night around nine and went to Aakash's cousin's house for dinner.  Vinnay and his wife Yashika were wonderful hosts and we were lucky to spend time with them.  Around eleven, we started off for the airport.  First, we parked the car in a lot and got into a van with one of Renudidi's cousins.  (Renudidi is Aakash's stepmom.)  Then, we went to the airport to pick up Renudidi.  Her flight was delayed, but we waited and got to know her sister and nephews who had come to greet her as well.  After she arrived, her sister took her luggage and along with her cousin, Vinay, and the owner of the van, we set off.  But first we drove somewhere else and switched drivers.  (The whole trip was very confusing for us.  Apparently the original driver owned the vehicle, but they hired a different driver to take us to Haridwar.)  Anyways, then the five-ish hour to Haridwar began.

We left around one am I think.  Once we got out of Delhi, it was extremely dark and bumpy.  For anyone that doesn't know, traveling outside of cities in India means driving on a dirt, mostly two-ish lane road, and the bumps and holes are more than numerous.  Aakash and I were sitting in the backseat where there were no headrests or seatbelts.  We knew we were in for a trip when Vinay, who we had previously established NEVER wears a seatbelt, reached and buckled his.  I couldn't see outside the vehicle at all, but the trip basically consisted of us driving really really fast, then someone slowing down (which was tough, because that's when you knew to brace yourself for bumps) and driving over CRAZY bumps.  More than once, our heads nailed into the roof of the van.  There was also constant eye-blinding headlights in both directions from other vehicles.  When the driver came upon a truck in front of us, he would pass it, more often then not starting a terrifying game of chicken with another car that was heading straight towards us.  Needless to say, I got some sleep, but not a lot.  Luckily, Aakash slept a good amount, or at least more than me.

Finally, when it started to slowly get light, we stopped for some chai, then drove a little further and parked in a (sketchy) parking lot, behind some small temple.  We changed in the car and walked down an alley past some sleeping beggers, who were slowly getting up.  At the end of the alley was a small, sort of open outdoor amphitheater with a roof and steps that stepped down into the Ganga (Ganges) River.  I was shocked at how fast the river was flowing, although the brown, cloudy water did not surprise me.  Some priests approached us and Vinay said something and they lead us to the end of the amphitheater where we performed the rites.  I couldn't understand what he was saying and I was not sitting close, but from what I could see, this is what happened:  They poured the ashes onto a big plate.  Vinay, Aakash, and Renudidi were given flower petals to pour on the ashes.  During the whole thing, the priest was chanting (in Sanskrit, I believe) and Vinay, Aakash, and Renudidi were instructed to repeat things after certain phrases.  Money kept being placed on the plate and then another priest brought a cup of water from the river and the main priest poured it over the ashes.  All this happened a few times, and then the ashes were dumped in the river onto one of the steps that was submerged.  The whole ordeal was very quick.  Traditionally, you are not suppose to photograph anything during this, but I took some pictures for Meera.  (Meera, I'll send you a link once I upload them.)  

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It's a monkey! And he's got a banana!
Then, we got back into the car and drove a few minutes to another holy area on the Ganga.  After stretching our legs and using the bathroom, we walked into a section of Haridwar that was alongside the river.  To get there, we crossed the road we had been traveling on, walked down a sort of touristy, cart shop stretch of a dirt road, and crossed a bridge.  At this point, the sun was just rising and it was absolutely beautiful.  There were lots of people, monkeys, cows, and bustle.  On the other side of the river, we found a nice (?) spot along the river for Vinay and Aakash to bathe in.  Some official came by and we had to pay him (although, he did issue a receipt, so when another one came by demanding money, we didn't have to pay again!)  Aakash and Vinay stripped down (Aakash had asked Vinay before we left what to wear when they bathe, and Vinay said just underwear.  So Aakash was pretty pissed when Vinay took of his clothes and put a swimming suit on over his briefs!)  Again, there were steps leading down into the river, but here there was a sort of rope fence a few feet in, which I thought was good because again, the water was flowing very quickly.  Aakash said the water wasn't too cold, but Vinay was freezing.  Mostly Aakash was skeeved out by the mush he stepped in on the river bed.  (Of course he had to step into the river after seeing a bunch of dudes taking their morning dump a little ways upstream...)  There were lots of other people ceremoniously bathing.  One man bathed his child, another woman went in with all her clothes on.  I'll include a few photos, but unfortunately my camera ran out of space, so I wasn't able to take too many of this beautiful area.  Anyways, after that, they dried off, and we got back into the car for another exciting five plus hour car ride.  On the way back, I was able to sleep a lot, which was nice, and Aakash was able to enjoy the view of the farmlands we had passed through the night before.  Once we got back to Delhi, we went to Renudidi's sister's home for drinks and snacks and then crashed at Vinay's house.  That night, he ordered chicken biriani and made a mutton curry.  Aakash and I agreed that Vinay's mutton curry was one of the best things we had eaten in India so far.  After another night of actually sleeping in a bed, Aakash and I came back to Kolkata on Wednesday.
PictureAakash and Vinay in the Ganga River.

Obviously that was the most exciting thing that's happened in the past ten days.  Aakash started lessons with his guru.  He had two lessons, but now his guru is out of town and doing some recordings, so he has a week or so to practice before his next lesson.  I've starting singing again, which is nice, but feels a little off.  However, it gets better all the time.  Monday, Aakash met Tanmoy Bose in the recording studio and played some stuff for his upcoming album.  Last Saturday, we had some Americans over to play Cards Against Humanities, which was awesome, of course.  These were friends we met through our British friend, Jess, who unfortunately couldn't make it.  One humorous thing that happened was with our new friend Matt.  When we first met, we shared an auto home together, because we found out we lived on the same street!  Anyways, we walked home and parted at a corner for each of us to go home.  (Although it was night, so Aakash and I actually got lost.  Oops.)  Anyways, when we invited everyone over to play CAH, I found Matt looking for our house when I was meeting other friends to show them the way.  Anyways, after walking to our house, it SHOCKED both of us to find out we actually live at the same address.  He told us he lived at "70 Cornfield Rd," but apparently he mumbles (you get that, right Julie?) and he lives at 7C like us.  To get to our flat, you open a gate, walk up two half flights of stairs (which leads to Matt's door), then open another gate and walk up another half flight to our flat.  It was pretty funny to find out we weren't only street neighbors, but we share a gate and a washing machine.

Anyways, I think that's more than enough from me.  I hope you're all well.  I've been feeling a little under the weather and have been sleeping a lot, but hope to find a dance class and start looking into teaching in the next week or so.  I love you all and hope to hear from you soon.

Love,
Jayanthi 

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September 3rd, 2013

9/3/2013

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Hello again!
It is barely 11:30 today, but already it has been a wonderful day! This morning we went and viewed a flat owned by an English professor and her retired husband that we loved and we have decided to take it.  The owners live across the hall and are a very nice couple perhaps in their late fifties or early sixties who speak great English (which is a big plus to me!) The flat is on the second floor (considered the first floor because it is done above the ground floor.) There is a beautiful big kitchen with dishes, gas stove, and refrigerator.  This is an upgrade from another place we looked at that had a few more rooms but was twice the cost, not including the fact that the owner said we must buy a refrigerator if we want one.  It is a one bedroom apartment with a really nice, clean bathroom and a large living room with guest bed.  There is also a spacious hallway with a table and a small patio.  And there is also a washing machine we can use! Obviously we are very pleased and are happy to finally be able to settle in.  We will hopefully move in tomorrow and set up Internet there within the week.

House hunting has taken up much of our time, but we have had some opportunities for fun.  On Saturday, we went to a member's only club with some friends we met on our last flight who were visiting from Delhi.  Last night, we went to a sitar concert with Aakash's guru which was nice.  I could have done without the 45 minute lecture in Bangla at the beginning, but I can't have it all.  We invited a British girl we met at the AIIS office a few days back.  It's nice to both make friends and have someone to speak the English we are accustomed to.

So, there's the most current update.  I will give you all our address when I have it on hand and I will of course update you all again.  I feel my English is already becoming different from trying to communicate with Indians, so hopefully you can understand all that I've written.  Know that Aakash and I think of all you all often and we hope you're well.  Talk to you soon!

Love,
Jayanthi
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